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Deployment

Pre-Deployment Checklist

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Reintegration

Reintegration Resources

Support and guidance for transitioning back home after deployment

Welcome Home

Thank you for your service. Reintegration takes time, patience, and effort from the whole family. You've accomplished something incredible - now give yourself the time and grace to readjust. Support is available whenever you need it.

Understanding the Reintegration Timeline

Immediate (First 2 Weeks)
The honeymoon phase - excitement of reunion

Common Challenges:

  • Sleep schedule adjustment
  • Sensory overload from stimuli
  • Re-learning household routines
  • Children may be clingy or distant

Tips:

  • Take it slow - don't overcommit
  • Maintain some deployment routines initially
  • Accept that adjustment takes time
  • Give yourself grace for irritability or fatigue
Short-term (2-6 Weeks)
Reality sets in - adjusting to new normal

Common Challenges:

  • Role confusion (who does what)
  • Different parenting styles
  • Missing deployment camaraderie
  • Spouse has new independence

Tips:

  • Communicate openly about expectations
  • Gradually resume responsibilities
  • Appreciate changes spouse made
  • Find new shared activities
Long-term (6 Weeks - 6 Months)
Establishing new equilibrium together

Common Challenges:

  • Underlying issues may surface
  • Financial adjustments (less deployment pay)
  • Career transition if separating
  • Persistent mental health concerns

Tips:

  • Seek counseling if needed - no shame
  • Reconnect intentionally with spouse
  • Re-establish family traditions
  • Stay connected with battle buddies
Post-Deployment Checklist
Tasks to complete after returning from deployment

Administrative

  • Complete Post-Deployment Health Assessment (DD 2796)
  • Attend reintegration briefings
  • Update emergency contact info if needed
  • Review and update SGLI beneficiaries
  • File travel voucher within 5 days

Medical

  • Schedule post-deployment health screening
  • Dental checkup
  • Complete any required follow-up appointments
  • Address any deployment-related injuries/illness
  • Mental health screening

Financial

  • Review bank accounts and investments
  • Cancel deployment-related allotments if needed
  • Review/update budget for reduced pay
  • Check credit report for any issues
  • Verify SDP withdrawal if applicable

Legal

  • Review and update will if needed
  • Revoke temporary POAs if desired
  • Update vehicle registration if needed
  • Review any contracts signed during deployment

Family

  • Plan quality time (but don't overschedule)
  • Reestablish routines gradually
  • Schedule family counseling if needed
  • Reconnect with children individually
  • Plan a getaway with spouse

Mental Health Resources

Military OneSource
24/7

Free, confidential counseling for service members and families. 12 free sessions per issue.

1-800-342-9647Website
Veterans Crisis Line
24/7

Immediate support for veterans and service members in crisis.

988, then press 1Website
Vet Centers
Business hours

Community-based counseling for combat veterans and families. No VA enrollment required.

1-877-927-8387Website
Give an Hour
By appointment

Free mental health services from licensed professionals for military members.

Website
Real Warriors
Online resources

Resources for psychological health concerns. Combat stress, PTSD, TBI information.

Website
Cohen Veterans Network
By appointment

Free mental health care for post-9/11 veterans and families.

Website
When to Seek Help
These signs may indicate you or a loved one needs professional support:
Persistent nightmares or flashbacks
Avoiding people, places, or activities
Feeling emotionally numb or detached
Excessive anger or irritability
Difficulty sleeping for extended periods
Increased alcohol or substance use
Thoughts of self-harm or suicide
Difficulty functioning at work or home
Relationship problems getting worse
Hypervigilance that doesn't decrease

Remember: Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Combat stress and PTSD are treatable. Early intervention leads to better outcomes. You are not alone.

Tips for the Whole Family

For Spouses
  • Share decision-making again gradually
  • Communicate changes that happened while apart
  • Be patient with readjustment timeline
  • Plan regular date nights
  • Seek couples counseling proactively
For Children
  • Maintain routines for stability
  • Let them express feelings freely
  • Reintegrate returning parent into activities slowly
  • Don't force immediate closeness
  • Consider family counseling
For Service Member
  • Be patient with yourself and family
  • Communicate your needs clearly
  • Accept help from others
  • Maintain healthy habits (sleep, exercise)
  • Stay connected with unit members
Frequently Asked Questions

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