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Guide to DEERS enrollment, military ID cards, and essential family documentation requirements.

Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System (DEERS)
The database that verifies eligibility for military benefits

All family members must be enrolled in DEERS to receive military benefits including TRICARE, commissary/exchange access, and installation access. Keep your DEERS information current to avoid interruptions in benefits.

ID Card Office Locator

Required Documents for DEERS Enrollment

spouse Enrollment Documents
Bring all required documents to your ID card appointment
Marriage CertificateRequired

Certified copy required

Spouse Social Security CardRequired

Original or certified copy

Spouse Government-Issued IDRequired

Driver's license, passport, or state ID

Sponsor Military IDRequired

Your CAC or military ID

DD Form 1172-2Required

Application for ID Card

Military ID Cards

Dependent ID Card (DD Form 1173)
Standard ID for dependents age 10 and older

Features:

  • Access to military installations
  • TRICARE eligibility verification
  • Commissary and exchange privileges
  • MWR facility access
Validity: 4 years or until sponsor separation
DBIDS Registration
Biometric enrollment for installation access

Features:

  • Faster gate entry with CAC-enabled access
  • Enhanced security verification
  • Required at most installations
Validity: Linked to ID card validity

Where to Get ID Cards

ID Card Office / RAPIDS Site

Primary location for all ID card services

New ID cardsRenewalsDEERS updatesLost card replacement
Required - schedule via ID Card Office Online

Personnel Support Detachment

Navy/Marine Corps specific services

ID cardsDEERS enrollmentRecord updates
Walk-in or appointment varies by location

Military Personnel Flight (MPF)

Air Force/Space Force services

ID cardsDEERS updatesPersonnel records
Appointment typically required

When to Update DEERS

Life EventTimeframeDocuments NeededRequired Actions
MarriageWithin 30 daysMarriage certificate, spouse ID, spouse SSN card
  • Add spouse to DEERS
  • Update SGLI beneficiary
  • Update emergency data
Birth of ChildWithin 30 daysBirth certificate, child SSN card
  • Add child to DEERS
  • Update SGLI
  • Apply for ID card (at age 10)
AdoptionUpon finalizationFinal adoption decree, new birth certificate, child SSN card
  • Add child to DEERS
  • Update legal records
  • Apply for benefits
DivorceWithin 30 daysFinal divorce decree, court orders
  • Remove ex-spouse from DEERS
  • Update child custody info
  • Review benefits
Death of DependentAs soon as possibleDeath certificate
  • Remove from DEERS
  • Update SGLI
  • Review survivor benefits
Online Resources
Manage your DEERS information online

milConnect

View and update DEERS information, verify benefits eligibility

Access milConnect

ID Card Office Online

Schedule appointments, find locations, check wait times

Schedule Appointment

TRICARE Beneficiary Portal

Manage healthcare enrollment and verify coverage

Visit Portal

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